Don’t Compromise as of Immediately!

October 26th, 2010 by Wael Leave a reply »

Life is slippery and evasive.

Now it’s here. Now it’s not. Now they’re here. Now they’re not. Now you’re here. Now you’re not.

This is no news.

The tragedy is that not one second goes by without life reminding us of this nature of hers.

And yet, are we listening? Are we reminded? And above all, are we acting upon it?

Things happen. Some of them knock on the doors of our consciousness and ask to command our attention. You ask me? That’s exactly what we should let them do! The risk? Looking back one day and thinking I wish!

That alone makes it all at least worth the trial. Nothing guaranteed though. Just the full hearted trial.

Listen. Listen well. Don’t compromise anymore. Go do those things you have always thought and said you would do. Go do them now.

Don’t compromise showing someone you love them, don’t compromise telling someone you appreciate, don’t compromise quitting a job that’s taking you nowhere, don’t compromise starting an adventure that your heart beats for, and whatever you do, don’t compromise being happy.

Cost or no cost. What goes of life never comes back.

Don’t compromise as of immediately.


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8 comments

  1. Raya says:

    Ouf !!! je parlais exactement de ca le week end dernier .

    Que de fois on se dit qu’on veut tout arreter pour enfin se lancer dans un projet, une passion, un style de vie qui nous tient a cœur depuis des annees.
    Que de fois on envisage d’ecouter et de suivre nos intuitions. (et oui, cet eternel conflit entre la raison et l’intuition).
    Et que de fois la raison l’emporte !

    Il faut dire que ce n’est pas si simple, les raisons sont tellement nombreuses pour ne pas se lancer :
    - Le poids des responsabiltes que nous avons (principalement familiaux, conjoint, enfants, parents)
    - Le poids de la morale et de l’education (peur du regard des autres, peur d’être egoiste ou capricieux, peur du bonheur pur)
    - Le poids de la fatalite (on laisse faire les choses en se disant « si ca doit arriver ca arrivera tout seul »)
    - Le poids du confort de la vie (peur de faire des sacrifices qui peuvent entrainer un changement provisoire de standing de vie
    - Le poids du manque de confiance en soi (peur de ne pas savoir faire la distinction entre un caprice ou un desir profond, peur de ne pas avoir les capacites )
    - Le poids du manque de confiance en la vie (peur de l’inconnu, du non maitrisable)

    Je realise qu’en fait au lieu d’agir comme un ingenieur, on agit comme une machine,
    Au lieu d’agir comme un metteur en scene on agit comme un acteur, et meme un spectateur.

    Je realise aussi qu’il n’y a pas beaucoup de raisons qui poussent à ecouter les intuitions :
    - Le bonheur
    - Le bonheur
    - Le bonheur

    Mais au lieu de le laisser peser le bonheur de tout son poids (qui est enorme !!) sur la balance on ne le depose meme pas sur la balance.
    Et on finit par se dire que de toute facon … comme « What goes of life never comes back. », on ne saura jamais vraiment ce qu’on a rate ! …

    Et pourtant le bonheur est un stimulateur tellement puissant !!

  2. najla says:

    it’s amazing,
    i have in mind a sayin form the movie : in the pursuit of happiness ” that says: when u want somethin , go and get it dont wait for anyone to get it for you” so it complements and i believe in it and since then i never compromise .. :-)

  3. وائل يا حلو كيفك ؟
    كيف عيلتك
    والجميع
    على قدّ فهمي اللغة الانكليزية والفرنسية فهمت انو موضوعك فيه حزن او فيه تساؤل عما تعنيه هذه الحياة التي لا أمان للقدر فيها !
    كذلك في رد ريا

    الله كبير وشغلو بيعملو
    ونحنا منعمل شغلنا واللي علينا
    سلم عالجميع
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  4. Wael says:

    Hi Najla,

    It’s great to hear from you and to know that this rhymes with your life.

    All the best,

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  5. Wael says:

    Raya,

    Je pense que ça sera toujours une question subjective de circonstances, de choix et de conséquences.

    Je te laisse le reste pour y penser dans cette perspective.

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  6. Wael says:

    أهلاً مريم،
    نحنا مناح وعسا تكونوا انتو كمان. شكراً كتير على التعليق.
    الحقيقة انو خلفيّات الموضوع ممكن كتير يكون للحزن فيها مطرح بس الغرض منّو هو تحدي الأمر الواقع وعدم الإنجرار ورا تأجيل أمور مهمة ممكن يروح العمر والواحد عم يدفشها وما يعملها ويندم متأخّر… أمور متل الشّكر والإمتنان والإعتذار والحب والسعادة…
    أنا ناطر رأيك باللي جايي كمان. شكراً كمان مرّة للإهتمام.
    وائل

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  7. lara naddaf says:

    Inspiring and breathtaking. A despicable truth we can’t run from, and we feel it the most when we lose dear people we cherish and say where my troubles and focus in life worthy??
    Cheers for new trials and least postponing
    Lara

  8. Wael says:

    Cheers! And may you never look back and say I wish…

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